3 Ways To Meet Men

One of the top questions I’m asked about by fabulous single women is where can I meet new men? After all, they don’t generally randomly knock on the door…so here are 3 places to look.

Where you like hanging out

Whether it’s your favorite coffee place or the rock climbing gym, there are 3 reasons to go somewhere you like hanging out. 1-even if you don’t meet a man, you’ll still enjoy the experience. 2- you may meet like-minded women, which are important as you expand your network and will make singlehood more fun. And 3- the guy you like probably shares some of your values, so he may be there as well.

Where they like hanging out

While I don’t think you should spend all you time looking for love or trying to find men; it is worth spending a little time in places where a great new guy may be. Think about the kind of guy you’d like to meet.

Is he athletic? Check out a sports bar or join a co-ed team. Is he bookish? Go to where books are-at public readings or literary events around town. Another tip: skip the wine bar. Ever notice they’re full of groups of women and people on dates?

And finally Online

I had to mention online dating! About half the single population in the US meeting people online, so if you’re not looking there, you’re missing out. The reality is that you may see some familiar faces on a dating site, but you’re bound to see a number of other people you wouldn’t otherwise have access to.

Those are just a few ideas. Don’t stress yourself out looking for me or searching for love. If you surround yourself with good people, enjoy your life and stay open. You’re bound to attract great people!

Comments

About the author

Andrea Syrtash

Contributor to over a dozen relationship advice books. Author of He's Just Not Your Type (And That's a Good Thing); Cheat On Your Husband (With Your Husband) (Rodale Books 2010 & 2011). Co-Author of It's Okay to Sleep with Him on the First Date: And Every Other Rule of Dating Debunked (Harlequin Non-Fiction, July 2013)